Jools Lebron was sitting in her car during a break from her supermarket shift when she recorded the TikTok video that would abruptly change the direction of her life.

In the August 2024 clip, Lebron joked about wearing understated makeup to work. “Very demure, very mindful,” she told viewers, contrasting her appearance with people who, she said, “go to the interview looking like Marge Simpson and go to the job looking like Patty and Selma.”

At first, the reaction appeared ordinary. A handful of comments arrived, then more. Soon the numbers began climbing at a pace she had never experienced before.

“I remember refreshing my phone and just staring at it like: ‘Wait … what is happening?’” Lebron recalled during a video call from her home in Chicago.

Within days, the phrase had spread well beyond TikTok. Government agencies, celebrities and brands repeated it across social media. Nasa used the phrase in a post on X about Earth viewed from space. The White House account for former US president Joe Biden referenced it in a post about student debt relief, while Khloé Kardashian repeated it in a makeup video of her own.

The sudden popularity marked another sharp turn in a public life that had already included periods of online success, personal setbacks and attempts to rebuild stability away from the spotlight.

Lebron, now 30, first built a following online after transitioning in her early 20s. Influenced by transgender beauty creator Nikita Dragun, she began posting makeup tutorials and videos about her personal experiences on YouTube.

She said she rarely saw trans women online who resembled her background or appearance. Her videos combined beauty content with stories about family relationships, dating and the experience of coming out. Over time, her audience grew to nearly one million subscribers.

That momentum later faded after a public feud with beauty influencer Patrick Starrr. Lebron said she lost brand partnerships, struggled with cocaine addiction and was eventually dropped by management.

Under pressure from her mother to seek more stable work, she stepped away from pursuing large beauty contracts and took a supermarket job stocking shelves and assisting customers.

She described that period as unexpectedly stabilising.

“I’m working a regular job,” she remembered thinking. “This is so good. I turned my life around.”

Then came the “demure” video.

The attention brought a rush of opportunities, but also demands that quickly became difficult to manage. Lebron said she spent weeks travelling for interviews, appearances and meetings with companies seeking to benefit from her sudden visibility online.

She later appeared on an episode of Jimmy Kimmel Live! co-hosted by RuPaul, speaking comfortably with the veteran television host and performer.

Behind the scenes, however, she said the pace became overwhelming.

Packages from brands arrived in large volumes each day, sometimes disappearing before she could retrieve them. A delayed promotional campaign reportedly led one company to cancel a deal, while Lebron said some industry representatives later described her as unreliable to other agencies.

She also said she increasingly felt treated as a temporary viral figure rather than someone companies intended to invest in over time.

At the same time, she was dealing with personal trauma. Shortly after the phrase spread online, Lebron said she was assaulted by a man she had met online. Although she informed people around her, she felt there was little space to pause while public interest in her continued to grow.

Feeling isolated and overwhelmed, she said she returned to drug use.

Even while discussing painful memories, Lebron often shifts into humour. She recalled attending Milan Fashion Week in 2024 for luxury brand Bottega Veneta when she received a call from her former fiancé telling her their dog was being put down.

As makeup artists prepared her for celebrity interviews, she said she struggled through tears before heading out to the event.

Later that evening, she approached Kendall Jenner for an interview clip and left upset after what she described as a dismissive interaction.

Back in her hotel room, exhausted and grieving, she said she searched for drugs again before realising she was in Italy and did not know where to find any. Recounting the moment now, she laughed while stroking her long wig.

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The rise of “very demure” transformed Lebron’s life within days. Her account of the months that followed offers a more complicated picture of internet fame, where sudden visibility can bring opportunity, instability and pressure in equal measure.